What I'm Reading | October 2015

Well. Here we are, the thirty-first day of October. Last month I told you what was about to happen, and on Monday, October 5, our lives changed forever. It's been a pretty incredible few weeks. As it turns out, nursing provides ample time to catch up on RSS feeds and ebooks, so I've managed to stay relatively up to date on what's going on in the world. Here's a peek at what I've been reading + the food I want to be eating once I start cooking more regularly again. 

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The 10 stages of the creative process. 

Ruth Reichl on food, writing and the joys of the baked potato.

Which type of library user are you?

Stop hustling and get your life back. 

Parents today are often chastised for being distracted by their devices, for devoting more attention to their phones than to their children.

Rethinking work.

A new way to entertain.

We create out loud.

A new approach: Screw finding your passion. 

Can you practice simple living but still love your stuff? 

Food I want to make: pumpkin spice latte, spelt cornbread with raspberries, amaranth porridge with roasted pears, and pumpkin flatbread with gruyere and sage.

Making Something Out Of Nothing

I emerged from a nap, a small luxury, about a week before Henry was born. The house had just been cleaned, which meant the kitchen was a blank slate. Empty, with late afternoon sunlight streaming in. I pulled out my largest bowl, a collection of herbs, and the remaining vegetables in the refrigerator that needed a home.

Make something out of nothing. Tamar Adler's words were fresh in mind. When I first read An Everlasting Meal, this idea clung to me. It appears suddenly on Friday evenings, when I'm deciding between going out and staying in, realizing I didn't quite plan for the end of the week, but feeling up to the challenge of scrounging around in the fridge and pantry and putting together a meal.

Lately, these four words have been a companion of mine in the kitchen, and I often turn to them as one would a mantra or favorite quote written on the chalkboard. Because the words stay with me, I proceed to follow their advice, relying on instinct and memory and only a small amount of knife skills.

The words appear as a simple nudge, and they are, in one way. In another way, though, they are a call to pursue the instinctual piece of yourself as a cook which can be frightening, depending on your mood or comfort level. The words are gentle, but they guide us to an interior part of ourselves, perhaps unexplored.

Like anything worth practicing, cooking is an important pursuit. If you're here now, reading this post, I'm inclined to think you agree with me. And that means sometimes we must go off on our own, remove recipes from our counters or phone screens, and just make something. 

My something turned out to be a Moroccan-inspired quinoa salad. I often soak grains overnight, cook them, and assume they will be used, which they usually are. So I did some of the preparations already, having cooked two cups of quinoa earlier that morning, but I didn't decide what to add to the bowl until the moment when I pulled out my knife, sharpened it, then proceeded to open the refrigerator and pull out what remained from the week.

There was half a cucumber, a cup of cherry tomatoes I was protecting from summer fruit flies, half a bunch of kale, three different herbs (mint, parsley, cilantro), a box of chickpeas, a handful of golden raisins leftover from the granola I baked two days before. To make the dressing, I reached for cumin, lemon, shallot, mustard, honey, oil. 

In keeping with the theme of trust and instinct, I cannot offer a recipe. I've listed my ingredients, and I trust you. You know how to whisk a vinaigrette and add more honey if it's too tart. You know how to chop all the greens at your disposal, gather a pile of grains. I know the same, because I peeled, chopped, sliced, whisked. I tossed well, coating every grain, tasted for salt, tossed again, then stepped back from the counter, proud in some small way but mostly, deeply content. And grateful.

Grateful for a quiet house, for the light, for the dog waiting by my feet should a piece of cucumber spill to the floor. Grateful for what was to come in just a few days, which would be more monumental that I could have ever prepared for. Grateful for sustenance and skill and the ability to make something when required. Or not even required. More simply, when needed.

New Addition

I spent last weekend going on long walks in our neighborhood, eating spicy Thai food, drinking raspberry leaf iced tea, and waiting. Early Monday morning before the sun rose, my water broke, and I went from being pregnant to being in labor to being a mother in roughly twelve hours. I might have more to say about that experience another time, but until then, would like to introduce you to Henry Cade Gulotta, born October 5, 2015.

We're over the moon. 

Clearly, this might alter my posting frequency for the next couple of months, which is to be expected. Literary City Guides are still streaming in (to some amazing destinations I can't wait to share), and as for the rest of it, I will be here as often as I can while I settle in to a brand new routine. 

Many of you have already sent your well wishes on social media and through touching emails, and I thank you for welcoming me into the parent club with such open arms and hearts. More soon. xo